The messy middle of losing your theology can feel like losing a language — you don't know how to talk about what you believe anymore, because the words you had were built inside a system that's no longer standing.
Brian Recker, author of Hell Bent, joins Nikki P to talk about what starting over looks like after fear-based faith collapses — the anxiety that follows deconstruction, the grief of certainty you didn't choose to lose, and what it means to rebuild self-trust when every belief you had was handed to you by someone else.
— Starting over when the theology you built your life on falls apart
— Why fear-based systems create chronic anxiety that outlasts the belief
— The grief of losing certainty — even certainty you no longer wanted
— How to rebuild self-trust when systems break down
— Navigating messy lives in the space between what you left and what you're building
You don't have to have it figured out. You just have to be willing to start over.
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